The Pauls
Growing up in Durgapur, Avijit, Debatosh and I were a trio that were fairly inseparable throughout our school days. I got a chance to meet Avijit a couple of months back when he was visiting Dallas from Perth, Australia. Coincidentally, the other of the trio – Debatosh was also visiting Dallas this week from Bangalore, India. So, one more trip to Dallas had to be made,
The lady in picture is Sharmistha, my dad’s colleague’s daughter. Also my batch mate, we had become friends way before these two started going to the same engineering college and then dating each other. There is an infamous story about me sitting outside her house by the open drain while Debatosh went inside to talk to her and her parents. I will let Sharmistha tell you that story.
I think the three of us got under the same roof today after two decades or so.
In most cases where two of my friends have married each other, I get to be in a touch with them a little more… you know, there are two birthday calls a year that happen when I get to talk to both of them.
Except in this case, and keeping up with coincidences, both my friends were born on exactly the same day (and year)!!
It was a different kind of travel down nostalgia lane spending the day with them.

The Roys of Dallas
Jay Jay and myself – at our usual haunt
We forget everything… but never forget people
For most of us, our daily routine at work usually is a lot of discussions and debate ain close quarters round numbers, products, software bugs, architecture, so on and so forth. Only distance – that leaving a team or a company enforces – brings in retrospect what were the most important aspects of our jobs. In about two years, we forget numbers, a bit later, we forget product names … but we always remember the people and the conversations.
Have you noticed when you meet old colleagues how almost the entire conversation is about people, events that happened with people or words that were uttered?
This evening with Celeste and Lela was no different. Celeste was one of the handful of leaders who successfully guided our company thru Covid. Looking back over drinks, we realized that we sometimes forget how it felt like trying to guide so many employees’ and their families’ physical, mental and economic health. All the while, going thru the absolute dark tunnel of a pandemic with no idea how many years it would take us to see some light at the end of it. I recollect how some of the quick adaptations were Celeste’s brainchildren.
But the best part is that the three of us are still great friends and try to see each other whenever we can. Special thanks to Lela for reaching out to me to put this meeting together in Atlanta while they were visiting from Denver and Chicago!








