6 August 2025

We live a few miles apart… but met after 8 years!

First time I met Laura was at work around 2007 when we had moved to Atlanta.

Then Sharmila and I paid her a visit in her house in Chile around 2011.

In 2017, Laura moved to Atlanta and I got a chance to meet her in a coffee shop in Alpharetta. And then, although all these years we have lived within a few miles of each other, we never managed to meet.

Till today, of course! We met in another coffee shop in Alpharetta literally a few steps from that old spot. It was a great reminder how much downtown Alpharetta has changed in these few years!

4 August 2025

My running friend from nearly two decades back

It was one dark morning I had run with Natasha with the rest of the Windward Road Runners group. And that started a friendship that has lasted for two decades – although we have run together only a few times after that day.

Sharmila and I met her in Qatar in few years back and even before that I met Natasha and her mother outside Doha airport while switching flights. And for the last few summers, I have enjoyed meeting her and her younger son Matteo when they visit Atlanta. I learn every time from both of them.

Today was that evening for this summer!

4 August 2025

Guess who is feeling special on this birthday?

While vacationing in Belize three years back, I got a message from an old colleague Patrick Butler – who at that moment was in Nepal that I should go meet his old friend Giovanni – who was a bar owner there and ask him to make his special cocktail. So, Sharmila and I took a 50 minute golf cart ride to reach this much-advertised beach – ironically called Secret Beach.

While minding our own business in the waters there, we noticed an young couple nearby. To give them some space, we started moving away. We did not go far. The gentleman called us and asked if we could take a video of them dancing. To which we readily obliged.

Of course, a call to take a photo or video in Rajib-speak translates to a life time of friendship! We got to know Sara Marie and Lee and their fascinating journey that evening. And ever since, we have kept up thru birthdays.

Lee’s is an incredible life story of pain and ultimate triumph of happiness. I am a big follower of his writings in Facebook and Linkedin. I have never – literally never – seen anybody that matches his gracious attitude and magnanimity!

I got an interesting request from Sara Marie today (it is Lee’s birthday today). Apparently Lee is a very difficult person to find a gift for. So, she did something very personal. She wrote up about him in her own words.

And reached out to me to see if I could publish it in my blog!!

If you go to the Guest Writer section of my blog, you will see this heartfelt piece from her… https://www.rajibroy.com/2025/08/04/from-orphaned-in-korea-to-lighting-up-the-world/

It is Lee’s birthday!

And Sara Marie’s gift!!

But I was asked to put it in my blog!!

I assert I am the happiest of them all today!!!

Sara Marie and Lee, we are incredibly lucky that such a chance meeting happened to us. We got to know two very special people!!

4 August 2025

From Orphaned in Korea to Lighting Up the World

(by Sara Marie Holyoak)

Lee Vugrenes’ story begins with a kind of heartbreak most people can’t imagine. After 8 years with a single mother who loved him. Lee was abandoned by his father in Korea at age 10 and adopted by a family in Montana at 12, Lee’s early life was marked by pain, rejection, and unanswered questions. But instead of letting that define him, he rose. Through courage, faith, relentless personal growth, and an open heart, Lee rewired his pain into purpose. Today, he’s the living, breathing proof that no matter where you come from, you can choose to live with joy, purpose, and power. His journey from orphaned and suicidal to fulfilled and joyfully purpose-driven is a story that inspires thousands; not just because of where he’s been, but because of how fully he now lives.

Our Love, Our Adventures, Our Why

Being with Lee is a daily reminder that love, laughter, and deep soul connection can absolutely coexist. He’s my partner, my safe space, and the man who turns every ordinary moment into something extraordinary. Whether we’re dancing barefoot in the kitchen or across a quiet shoreline, we share our joy together wherever we go. On one of our travels, we asked a sweet couple if they’d film us dancing in the ocean. Not only did they capture the most magical video, but we met Rajib and his beautiful wife. They are two incredible humans who quickly became our friends. That’s a typical experience with Lee. He attracts love, makes connections, and creates unforgettable memories. Loving him is an adventure of the heart, and walking beside him feels like coming home to the most beautiful version of life.

His Birthday Wish: Let’s Light Up His World

This year, I’m asking for something special, not for me, but for Lee. If you’ve ever been moved by someone’s story of transformation, if you believe in spreading light, or if you simply want to be part of something beautiful, then I ask you this: help me give Lee the birthday gift of reach. Follow him on Instagram, YouTube, and LinkedIn. Share his message. Watch one of his videos. Every like, follow, and share helps extend his mission of helping others find happiness, self-love, and peace. He’s not in this to be famous, he’s in it to serve. And the more people who find his voice, the more lives can be transformed by it. Let’s make his birthday unforgettable… not just with cake and candles, but with impact.

Meet Lee Vugrenes – The Happiness Energizer

Lee is a transformational coach, powerful speaker, author of three books, consultant, and founder of the Happiness Energizer movement. It is a life-changing formula designed to help people energize their happiness, fall in love with themselves and their lives, and live with passion and purpose. (Another time I can share my experience on how his formula and love transformed me and my life.) Whether Lees consulting to improve businesses sales or coaching professionals, Lee radiates a contagious energy rooted in truth, heart, humor, and boldness. If you’ve ever needed a reminder that you’re powerful, beautiful, and meant for more know that Lee is the voice you need. You can follow and support him through the links below:

🌐 Website: ⁦www.happinessenergizer.com⁩
📘 Books on Amazon: Lee Vugrenes on Amazon
📲 Instagram: @happinessenergizer
🎥 YouTube: Happiness Energizer Channel
🔗 LinkedIn: Lee Vugrenes on LinkedIn
🕖 TikTok: @happiness.energizer

2 August 2025

Guess who I found out some new places to go to from?

The interaction started fairly innocuously. I was entering the Skyclub in SFO a bit tired and a bit worried about the red eye flight that I had to take to go home. The lady at the front asked her usual “How are you doing”. And without any second thought, I came up with my usual “If I did any better….”. She laughed her head off and we chatted a bit.

It was late at night and there was only one flight for Delta left that night. There were a couple of us in the club. She came up to me at the bar where I posting some blogs from my trp to Tonga and introduced herself. America is her name.

“America iss your name?”, I asked incredulously.

“Yes. It is not that uncommon in Mexico!”

I did not know that!! Found out that America Juarez Ruiz (her full name) is from outside Mexico City and had a fascinating story of how she came to the USA as a tourist and eventually mmet her husband while struggling to find the right tram route in SFO!!

“So, if I were to visit Mexico, where should I go?” I asked.

She gave me two names of places that I had never heard of – but the pictures looked gorgeous – Grutas de Tolantongo and Teotihuacan.

Later Sharmila mentioned she might have seen those pictures in Conde Nast!

I know where to go soon!!

19 July 2025

Forty five years ago, if you had told me….

It was 1980. The exact part of the year escapes me but I was in eighth grade. We had moved to our new place the year before. Mom needed some test papers to be sent to her school (she was a school teacher) but she was going to skip school that day. She sent me to a colleague of hers who lived the next street over to drop the papers. Which I duly did.

I remember meeting that teacher (I call her “Masi“) and her husband (I called him “Kaku“) for the first time. I answered all their questions – but refused to come inside the house. Not that the “mishtis” (sweetmeats) were not inviting… it was just that my friends were waiting on the playfield for me to join them.

That day, if you had told me that forty five years later I will be driving a boat to take “Masi” around to spend a day on a lake, I would have told you that you were smoking the wrong stuff!!!

But that day did come around!!

Wish mom was alive to hear the whole story…