10 February 2026

Made a new friend in the bar today!

I had settled down in my normal seat in the bar. Jess and Lauren came by to say Hi and ask, “The normal?” I nodded absent-mindedly, then opened the book I was reading. The goal was to get a couple of chapters under the belt over a glass of wine. Sharmila is in New York, so I had no travel planning to do, I guess.

Now, I mentioned that I was a bit absent-minded while responding to Jess and Lauren. And that is because I saw a very young kid going around and cleaning up the place. You know, putting things back in their place and that sort of thing. I had never seen the kid before.

“Who is he?” I asked Jess.
“Nolan. He is my younger son.”
“Oh! What is he doing – cleaning up the place?”
“Oh! He wants to be a help around. He loves it.”

He must have. Because, right at that moment, he showed up and asked, “Mom, what else can I do?”

Well, I introduced myself and found out that Nolan is a fourth-grader and that his favorite subject is Math. My idea of reading the book was defenestrated almost immediately. For the next hour or so, I taught him a few tricks rooted in math (like guessing your number and all), and then he would go try them on his mom and Lauren and impress them!

Eventually, it was time for me to go. It was getting late. We took a picture and parted ways. I am hoping that I will not have to wait till he comes of drinking age before I see him in the bar again!

9 February 2026

Chanced into an old friend!

Chris, Zeke and I went to an Italian place for dinner in downtown Fort Wayne. Unfortunately, it was closed – like every Monday. So, we strolled over to another place. Moment I entered, I thought I recognized the place. We sat at the bar. I asked the gentleman at the bar if somebody called Izzy worked there.

“Yes. She is here. She has gone to the back right now!”

Eventually Izzy came out. A few years back, after a full day of work at office in our engineering center in Fort Wayne, I had stopped here for dinner. And over dinner, made friends with Izzy. Got to know about her life and her family.

“Did you finish up your course in pedtrician nursing?” I remembered that was her goal.

“Almost done. 6 more months”

We caught up for a few minutes, took a picture and we went back to our own work.

Hope to see her next time when she is a full fledged nurse already!

6 February 2026

Impressive young gentleman

I continue to be amazed by how well put-together kids these days are. This young gentleman was sitting in a corner having a beer by himself at our favorite watering hole. He seemed to be taking a break after work. The beer drinking was fairly desultory – could not even finish half the glass in an hour.

Decided to make friends with him. I called him out and asked what he was up to. You can only imagine my surprise when he said he knew Nikita (our younger one)!! Turns out they were classmates in high school! Shiv – that be his name – is working to make some money for himself while finishing up his degree. He aspires to work in cybersecurity.

Here is another coincidence: his dad works at a company where I worked! In fact, that job was the reason why we moved to Atlanta in the first place!!

6 January 2026

My new friend in Uruguay

As is my wont, I had found an Indian restaurant in the city I was visiting and headed there. Instead of taking an Uber from Mercado de Puerto, I decided to walk it up through Ciudad Vieja and along the long promenade on the Rio de La Plata. As a result, by the time I reached the restaurant – about an hour and fifteen minutes later – I had worked up quite an appetite.

There was nobody inside. I was afraid they might be closed. Everything in the market seemed to be mostly closed. Apparently, I had landed on Children’s Day in Uruguay. A very friendly lady came up and said something to me in Spanish.

In Uruguay, English is barely spoken. All menus, signs, and instructions are in Spanish.

“No habla español. ¿Hablas Englsh?” I tried my best.
“Sure. Please come in.”

That was a big relief. I finally found somebody who could speak English. As I mentioned, there was nobody else in the restaurant. That gave me an opportunity to get to know Annie and learn about her life story.

“Were you born and brought up in Montevideo?”
“No. I am from Venezuela. And you?”
“I am from Atlanta. In the US”

That could have become awkward given the current geopolitical tensions between the USA and Venezuela. But it turned out I didn’t have to worry about anything.

“Where in Venezuela? I have not been to Venezuela, but I have been to your neighboring country, Guyana.”
“Not too far from there, actually – Bolivar.”
“So, how did you end up in Montevideo?”
“Well, I got my degree as a doctor in Venezuela…”

“Wait a minute,” I interrupted her. A doctor waiting tables did not fit my picture of the world.
“… you are a medical doctor?”

“Yes. And so is my husband.”
“So, why are you working here?”

Fascinating story. The economic situation was so bad in Venezuela that they got out of there two years ago. Came to Uruguay since it is easier to get a residency. However, there are many doctors in Uruguay. Plus, the country is very small. Only about 3.5 million people. 1.5 million in Montevideo, and the rest are strewn all over the vast country.

“So, your degree is valid here?”
“Yes”
“But you get no patients?”
“Yes. There are so many doctors already.”
“Wow! Same thing with your husband?”
“Yes”

“So, how did you meet your husband?”
Annie got animated at this question. “I have a very interesting story. Do you want to hear it?”

“Of course!” I said, looking around and finding no food at the table nor any guests for her to attend to.

It was an incredible story of coincidence. She and her husband, Johny, worked at the same hospital but did not know each other. It was a case of a particular patient that both of them had to tend to separately. Ultimately, it was the patient who brought them together. Unfortunately, the patient eventually died of the ailment. But their relationship held ground!

A bell rang. My food was ready.

At the same time, a couple walked in. Seemed local, based on how they ordered without even looking at the menu.

Everything said and done, Facebook contacts exchanged, I finally took leave.

“Next time, bring your family.”
“Sure. I would like to meet Johny too.”

And that was how yet another stranger became a friend. Hopefully, the birthday calls will keep the contacts going, and one fine day, you never know… maybe we will all meet each other again! Life can work in very strange ways.

31 December 2025

“Signal Aasche”!

A hallmark of my time with the nephew is how much we laugh together. This morning, he woke up late and sat down next to me on the sofa. I looked at him and his outstretched tufts of hair and commented “choolta khara hoye gechhe” (your hair has risen up!).

“Hmmm… signal aasche!!” (yes, I am receiving signal!!), he quipped!