All this time… and I had no idea!
Rashmi and I go back – oh some three decades. Her daughter Mitali was very close to Natasha when they were growing up as kids. For 13 years we were in Dallas. And now it has been nearly 20 years that we have been out of Dallas.
Even after these many years, we still stumble upon hitherto unknown intersection points!
Found out that Rashmi and Apurva, when they were in Hong Kong, were very close to Sharmila’s friend Rupa. In fact, when Sharmila and I had visited Rupa and stayed in her apartment, Rashmi and Apurva were in an apartment in the next building!!
Here is another one. Rashmi’s elder sister – Ranjha – lives in New York. We know her pretty well. And there is this girl from my old neighborhood in Durgapur – Urmi Duttagupta. Very close friend of me and my sister.
And now I find out that they are math professors in the same college in New York and know each other very well!!
Cool connections!
Reviving the good old adda days
The other reason we are in Dallas
Another intersection point
Following instructions, we had all arrived a bit early to the birthday party. The idea was to get together before Mita (whose birthday it was) could arrive and we would all spring a big old “Surprise” on her.
While mingling with the crowd and making new friends with strangers, I struck up a conversation with this young, handsome young man. After a few pleasantries, our discussion went something like this:
“By the way, I did not catch your name,” I said.
“Amit. Amit Walia.”
“Got it. Wait… Amit Walia? I have heard that name before. In fact that name came up recently….”. I was trying to rack my brains to remember where had I heard that name. (Later realized Mita had mentioned his name when Kushal and she visited us in Atlanta a few weeks back)
“What is your name?”
“Rajib”
“Got it…”
“You know, I am still trying to remember… I know that name was discussed very recently…”
And then he interrupted me.
“Wait, Rajib Roy?”
“Yes”
“Atlanta?”
“Yes”
And then in a few minutes we were able to put the whole thing together. Both of us were in school together – way back in the 70s. St. Xavier’s School, Durgapur to be precise. Amit was two years senior to me.
One of the advantages of my blogging all my life events was that I was able to take him thru pictures of all our teachers from the school. In the last decade or so, I have looked all of them up and visited them from Hyderabad to Ernakulam to Pune to Lucknow to Delhi… name the city and I have gone and visited them.
With each of the names, Amit was getting more and more animated as a lot of memories started coming back to him. Finally I gave him the contacts of a few teachers that he remembered the most and wanted to talk to.
Meanwhile, the birthday girl had started coming our way and we all switched off the lights and went silent in waiting.
I need to sit down with Amit again and go thru our school days in more detail.
Our first apartment in Dallas
I had recently posted pictures of our first apartment in this country. We revisited it when we went to Fort Lauderdale area a couple of weeks back.
From Florida, our next stop was Texas. Grapevine, Texas to be precise.
During our visit to Dallas last week, we went back to that first apartment in Dallas area we had lived in. We were there till 1995 at which point I had changed my job and moved to Arlington.
Incredible how the apartment complex, the pool area and everything around it has remained pretty much the same. I could drive there purely from memory.
In fact, I parked our rental car – a Toyota Camry from Avis – exactly at the same spot where we had parked our rental car the first night in Texas some 31 years back – also a Toyota Camry from Avis!! Only to wake up the next morning to realize our car had been broken into!!
That was a bit of a jarring welcome into Texas!!
Good old friends from St. Xavier’s days
The real big reason we were in Dallas – my best friend from school days was in Dallas to visit his brother in law. The last time I saw his son Rajit – he was a toddler. I think I saw Rakhi last in a get together in Taj Bengal many moons back (early 2000s). And of course, our inimitable Pratyush Paul from Dallas joined us too. And kept us entertained!