11 October 2025

Kept our promise

One of the inevitable effects of going to bars every evening with Sharmila and my somewhat pesky inquisitiveness to get to know people means we meet a lot of new folks. Especially, the people working behind bars. I probably have over fifty young people who have served us, and I still call them on their birthdays. Some of them are not so young today!

Two summers ago, Jay Jay, Sharmila, and I settled down at the bar seat outside Central City Tavern to watch a game when this young lady came up to take our drinks order. Before she could go back, I had already found out a lot about her and her parents (who live nearby).

The following conversation stood fairly close to the norm:

“So Abby, when you are not working here, what do you do? What passions do you have?”

“I am in college.”

“Oh! Where do you go?”

Now, this is where I was in for a shock! Usually, I get the answer of “University of North Georgia,” “Lanier Tech,” or “Kennesaw”-the usual nearby options. And in some rare cases, Georgia Tech or the University of Georgia.

Instead, she said, “I study in Prague.”

“Prague as in Europe?”

“Yes”

“Wow! You are the first student I know from Prague.”

We talked a lot about Prague and how our elder daughter has been there, but we have not. At the end of the discussion—and before she could forget our orders—we told her, “Well, we will come and visit you there sometime.”

I am not sure she took us seriously.

But here we are, a couple of years later, in Prague, having dinner with her!

I showed her pictures of the staff from the bar back where we had met. In fact, I had run into her best friend, Priscilla, that Saturday at the Farmers’ Market. She is a story for another day.

But for this evening, I was overjoyed to see our young friend from the neck of our woods and how she is building up her career and life!

6 September 2025

Harvey !!

I first ran into Harvey in 1994. I had been transferred by Citibank to Dallas from Florida. That was April of 1994. A few months later, a few fresh Texas A&M folks joined our group. That is when I met Harvey first – August 1994 – in the Citibank campus in Westlake, Texas.

A couple of years later, I left Citibank for i2 and soon, Harvey came over too. Eventually, they moved to Austin and we to Atlanta.

While I had not seen Bing for probably 25 years, I did get to meet Harvey about 10 years back when a few ex-i2ers got together in Austin. (I was visiting then).

Harvey and Bing is visiting Atlanta and swung by yesterday. We had a great time talking about our old friends, the good old times and life as empty nesters now!

26 August 2025

Surprise!!

After finishing up dinner with the Ghoshal family, I still had a bit of time to surprise the birthday girl – Debjani. This morning, while driving to Atlanta airport, I had called to wish her and surreptitiously found out her evening plans. She was going to be with Subhasis at a place of her choosing – Escape 360 Cafe in McKinney.

And that is exactly where I found them!! Our excitement was enough that after the Cafe shut down, we sat outside till near midnight chatting about our old days and even older friends!!

26 August 2025

Met the Ghoshals after a really long time!

Asok-da and Sumita-di were two of the very first Bengalis we had met when we moved to Dallas. It was during the 1996 Durga Puja – which was held in Grand Prairie. I had not seen them in quite some time. My last couple of attempts to meet them were thwarted by their own travel plans! This time though I was able to see them – nearly two decades later – in their house. HAd a marvelous time reminiscing the past!

10 August 2025

Reunion policy: no agendas, just memories.

Ah! Those coffee-fueled mornings and deadline-crazed nights! Distant memories as they were, they were the only bonds we needed to thread these dozen odd ex-i2ers living in Atlanta together celebrating Hiten’s visit from Singapore.

Stories flowed, laughter echoed (is there anything else that happens when Jim Wilson is around?) and the years in between simply melted away. As I have always professed, we forget numbers, we forget product names… but we always remember the faces, the words spoken and the nostalgic moments.

Jobs change, paths diverge, colleagues move on. The bonds built over sweat equity along the way are timeless though!

Here’s to shared memories, inside jokes and friendships that will outlast any cubicle wall!

8 August 2025

Ran into my multi-talented friend unexpectedly !

I had parked my motorbike, taken my helmet off and had just walked into the coffee shop. Immediately, I started scanning the patrons for somebody I was scheduled to meet. This was my first meeting with the person – so I was very focused on doing some pattern matching with the Linkedin picture I had seen of him.

And then in a jiffy, my eyes did a quick retrace as I thought I saw somebody all smiles at me. Sure enough!! It was good old Stacy working at a table!

We had become friends when I used to work out of Roam. You might remember some of her incredible cappuccino art from some of my old posts.

She had then moved to a new job. And today I got to see her for the first time after that!

That was a great start to the morning!