24 December 2025

Rishu visits us 2025

  1. Lights on the loop Dec 20, 2025

    Walk on Alpha Loop on the last day of the lights. Highlight of the evening? The three llamas !!

  2. Stroll by the Chattahoochee Dec 21, 2025

  3. Took my nephew to his first bowling alley Dec 22, 2025

    Used my years of experience to get beaten hollow by a neophyte!!

  4. Nephew tries out shuffle board for the first time Dec 23, 2025

    Unlike bowling, I managed to hold my own in this. But, just barely!!

  5. Loosening up the muscles with my nephew Dec 23, 2025

  6. Tug of war! Dec 24, 2025

  7. Getting the Christmas day kickstarted! Dec 25, 2025

  8. A round of scrabble before the gift opening Dec 25, 2025

  9. Tuey and Jay Jay were might pleased with their Christmas gift from Bogga Dec 25, 2025

    They donned the scarves pretty much all day, looking rather distinguished, if I may add!

  10. The tradition lives well and strong Dec 25, 2025

    I am not terribly sure what the roots are, but for as long as I can remember, the Christmas lunch in the Roy household has been a bit of an unusual feature in America. It is one of those “one doctor out of ten doctors approve” kind of diets – “luchi” (deep fried, puffed bread), “aloor dum” (potato curry) and “payas” (milk-based, sweet rice pudding). And then from time to time, there is the occasional “begun bhaja” (fried eggplant) or “dim-er curry” (egg curry).

    Basically, it is a phantasmagoria of your LDL-inducing, BP-raising, sugar-heightening, but delectable-to-the-tongue sort of lunch. In short, a traditional Bengali lunch. Sans the “golda chingri” (jumbo shrimp), I guess!!

    It used to be Sharmila who would do the honors. Then the girls took over the kitchen from her. And for the last two years, the nephew has joined forces to make a distinctly young-adult event of “moida makha” (making the dough), “luchi bela” (rolling the dough), and “luchi bhaja” (frying the dough).

    Sitting on my sofa, I could count the number of “luchis” swelling to their fullest potential by the “Yippees” emanating from the kitchen end of the house.

    Later, I was narrating a similar event to my nephew from over four decades ago. The competition among my siblings and me that day was to see who could roll the “luchi” with the rolling pin into a perfect circle like Mom would. My brother (my audience’s dad) fared the worst with the “luchi,” which looked dangerously close to the map of Africa. Undeterred, he showed up with the compass from his geometry box!!

  11. The Christmas lunch! Dec 25, 2025

  12. An evening of “cut throat” game with Sharmila and nephew Dec 25, 2025

  13. My nephew tries out air hockey for the first time! Dec 30, 2025

    If it were not for the self goals, he might have won!

  14. My nephew tries out a Lamborghini Dec 30, 2025

    In the arcade, of course! He successfully uprooted half of Paris!

  15. This was a bit closer to his skills Dec 30, 2025

    Still, most of the time, he insisted on driving between the lamp posts and fence and leave the wide road open to others!

  16. Some awesome time with my nephew… with a difference Dec 30, 2025

    Predictably, Jay Jay, he and I went to Chiringa. But then we did something cool. Both of us put our AirPod Maxes on and sound sharing on and then listened to some wide genres of music on the iPad – from Kalbeliya of Rajasthan to Kamarey of Kurdistan!! Like every other day, we shut the bar down!!

  17. “Signal Aasche”! Dec 31, 2025

    A hallmark of my time with the nephew is how much we laugh together. This morning, he woke up late and sat down next to me on the sofa. I looked at him and his outstretched tufts of hair and commented “choolta khara hoye gechhe” (your hair has risen up!).

    “Hmmm… signal aasche!!” (yes, I am receiving signal!!), he quipped!

  18. Today’s adventure with my nephew… Jan 1, 2026

    … some putt putt golf!

    It was his power versus my finesse. Mostly an inconclusive draw!

  19. Nephew completing the gift I got from the daughters Jan 2, 2026

    He is putting in the flags of the countries on the world map to designate the countries I have been to!