16 July 2023

Age is showing

Did a 5 mile (8K) run. It was exhausting. Granted there were some hills and it was hot and humid – but the overwhelming reason is that my body is not being able to take this as it used to.

I am wondering whether I should put in the time and effort and see if I can build back to half marathon distances by 2024 end. It is going to take quite some effort. But there is an old saying – What I eat today and how active I stay today will determine my quality of life 20 years from now…

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14 July 2023

Have you seen anything like this before?

Do you see anything interesting in the top picture?

We were sitting in one of those benches around The Green in Alpharetta Downtown when a bunch of Indian folks – seemed like a couple of families – caught my attention. It was the way the men were dressed. They looked like they were wearing “veshtis“. (My South Indian folks will understand). The other thing is that I had crossed a couple of them while walking Jay Jay a few minutes earlier and they had the pronounced mark of “vibhuti” on their forehead. Fairly religious person, I had concluded then.

They gathered as a group next to Curry Up Now. This is what I would have expected. A couple of Indian families walking up to Alpharetta Downtown to get some Indian food from Curry Up Now and making the most of the evening – that is fairly par for the course. It was a pair of large boxes they were carrying that had my curiosity piqued. They could not have hauled their Indian dinners from home to eat in front of the Indian restaurant – right?

Well, without ordering any food – in fact, they did not even go inside – they sat down on the green and then without any apparent provocation, started singing. From the way the ladies were giving the “taala” with their right hands, my guess was they were singing some Carnatic songs. What is more – I could hear the sound of “dhol” (kind of drum) and “khanjani” (hand held metal percussion instrument) wafting thru the light breeze. In fact, I could see the young kid on the “dhol” and two of the men playing the “khanjani”.

People were walking by curiously. As did I (that is how I got the lower picture). Turned out they were singing religious songs.

This is what I would expect to see in any random street corner in India on a nice evening. Never expected that in Alpharetta Downtown!!!

After about 45 minutes, they simply packed up and left. As suddenly as they had come. Did not get a chance to walk up to them and find out what were they up to.

13 July 2023

One of the most satisfying part of this India trip

The advantage of meeting all those relatives was that I could ask them a lot of questions about our ancestors. And finally, I have put three family trees together – two for my paternal grandparents’ and maternal grandparents’ side and one for Sharmila’s maternal grandparents’ side. One goes 5 generations up (from our generation), one goes 4 generations up and one goes 3 generations up. The one I have not been able to put together is Sharmila’s paternal grandparents’ side.

Yet.

I think I have made the most of my parents’ absence this trip!! I wanted to get this put together for posterity before deaths take away all the sources of information from me.

13 July 2023

“Relatively” successful trip

The goal was to visit as many relatives as I could since I did not have to be with my parents any more. Let’s see who all I met this time:

Sharmila’s and my immediate family members: 13
First cousins: 10
First cousins, once removed: 9
First cousins, twice removed: 2

I am marking this a “Mission Accomplished”

12 July 2023

One last set of cousins

Arrived in Delhi for my onward flight with about 8 hours to spare. Was enough time to meet yet another first cousin, first cousin once removed and a first cousin twice removed. In fact saw the twice removed fellow for the first time in my life!