11 March 2022

Exactly a year back…

… on this day, the sun rose in the east in its fullest glory like you see it today.

Only that my dad did not rise.

He passed away in his sleep after going thru a lot of suffering for about five years and then having been dealt the biggest emotional hit – losing my mom a few weeks before. I was not there with him that day (was not vaccinated yet). A year later, I will be there at the spot where he passed away (although the exact time of his departure is not known).

There are too many memories that floods my mind. For whatever reason, the one that I remember most is the last video call I had with him when he asked the same question he had been asking me over and over again … “When are you going to come?”

9 March 2022

Another mixed feelings long haul trip

One more of the quick trips to India. Last one was to celebrate mom’s one year death anniversary. This one is for dad’s. The excitement to make these trips is completely gone. These trips were all about expectations of some funny comments from dad, a trip with the siblings and their families, all of us sitting down on the floor as a big family to have dinner and all that. But with their departure and passage of time, the adhesive force of pulling everybody together is missing.

The kids have grown up. Niece is in college in Bangalore. Nephews are focused on their all important Board exams. The timing is not perfect either for my sister – who is preoccupied with setting up their new house or for my brother – who is out of town for work.

One silver lining is that my brother in law is going to be in Durgapur when I go to visit my mother in law. Looking forward to it… he is a very funny guy.

4 March 2022

A recursive lake

Flying back home from Costa Rica. Right now, we are over Nicaraguan territory. Directly below us – if you see the picture below – is an island. If you carefully notice, it is actually a volcano – Volcan Maderas is the local name. The waterbody around it that you can see is Lake Nicaragua (Lago Cocibolca is the local name). If you carefully follow the volcano contours, you can see the crater – unfortunately, from my angle, it is somewhat covered by a cloud. In any case, the crater is filled with water and is a lake itself. If you zoom that area, you will see a dark shaded area around the light shaded cloud shadow. I do not know the name of that lake. But that lake is a “recursive” lake.

It is a lake in an island which is in a lake!!

For the math geeks – the longest recursion is in the Philippines. Imagine what you are seeing here… just that there is a small island within the crater. And remember, the Philippines is an archipelago. So, you have an island in a lake in an island in a lake in an island!!

For the non-math geeks, understanding recursion is easy. First you understand recursion, then the rest is easy!!

4 March 2022

A connection to childhood

The hotel property had a lot of flowers. Many of them I recognized as flowers that I grew up with in India. In fact, they were there all in our house itself. I guess these thrive in tropical climates. My Bengali friends will recognize “rongon”, “korobi”, “kaathgolap”, “purish” in the picture.

4 March 2022

Those Big Ass fans in Liberia airport

It was 2013 November. The two Roy families from Dallas and Atlanta had landed in Liberia airport for the first time. As we stepped out, one of the first things that caught our eyes were the humongous fans in the ceiling. Upon closer inspection, we found out that they were called Big Ass fans! I did not know then, but later realized that it is an American company based in Lexington, KY. The original CEO used to carry a business card that said Chief Big Ass! The name created some controversy too in its barely twenty years of existence. As an example, postmasters in my state Georgia refused to deliver their letters citing obscenity!!

Adreesh, Aneesh, Natasha, Nikita, do you remember those fans? Today I collected a few more pictures of them!

3 March 2022

Surprise dinner guest

First time seeing a porcupine in the wild! We were busy having dinner when this stranger showed up. None of us could recognize it till the server told us that it was an African porcupine. It was about two feet long without the tail. It got on to the scaffoldings under the roof and just nestled itself there for the rest of the evening.