Wherever I have gone, people have been friendly in general. At the risk of over generalization, my life experience has been that
(i) in poorer countries, people are much more comfortable approaching each other for small talk; in richer countries, people tend to keep to themselves
(ii) in warmer countries – think tropical – people are more likely to approach strangers and talk; in colder countries, they again tend to keep to themselves or their groups

Guyana is absolutely the most friendly country I have so far been to. Complete strangers have walked up to me and talked at length. At first, it is a bit jarring (usually, I am the one doing it). Especially, on the roads, you do not know if there is any other motive. But soon you realize, this is the way they are.

The only difficulty is I have to ask them many times to repeat themselves. Their English and mine are very different. It is like we are one people divided by the same language!

By now, I have forgotten most of the names of so many new friends I have made.

But not Shalini !

Met her in the Marriott and we talked for about half an hour. Loved her life story and her perspectives in life. Made a few notes for myself on how to lead life. We are empty nesters now – but I totally related to her stories – the fun and the challenges of raising two almost-teenagers.

Next time, I hope to meet her kids too. I am sure I have a few puzzles to keep them busy!