23 July 2023

Three separate friendships… put together for the first time

Let me see if I can put the chain together… Prabasaj-da and I went to the same high school in mid 80’s near Kolkata. Prabasaj-da and Sunil went to the same engineering college together in the late 80’s in Kanpur. Sunil and I became apartment neighbors (and colleagues in the same company) in the mid 90’s in Dallas. There is a very interesting story on how I got to know Sunil.

And now in the early 20’s the three of us got together – for the first time ever – at a Korean bakery in Atlanta!! The bottom left picture is that of Prabasaj-da (after a nasty cycle accident) and Sunil going back over 35 years!!

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22 July 2023

A moment of rich irony

The band started a new song. It was from Pink Floyd’s “The Wall.”

Predictably, they came to the all-too-familiar chorus line.

The stage and the audience roared up with “Hey Teacher! Leave us kids alone.”

Precisely at that moment, the one teacher we had in our table – Anannya – decided to get up, join them and proceeded to cut a rug!

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14 July 2023

Have you seen anything like this before?

Do you see anything interesting in the top picture?

We were sitting in one of those benches around The Green in Alpharetta Downtown when a bunch of Indian folks – seemed like a couple of families – caught my attention. It was the way the men were dressed. They looked like they were wearing “veshtis“. (My South Indian folks will understand). The other thing is that I had crossed a couple of them while walking Jay Jay a few minutes earlier and they had the pronounced mark of “vibhuti” on their forehead. Fairly religious person, I had concluded then.

They gathered as a group next to Curry Up Now. This is what I would have expected. A couple of Indian families walking up to Alpharetta Downtown to get some Indian food from Curry Up Now and making the most of the evening – that is fairly par for the course. It was a pair of large boxes they were carrying that had my curiosity piqued. They could not have hauled their Indian dinners from home to eat in front of the Indian restaurant – right?

Well, without ordering any food – in fact, they did not even go inside – they sat down on the green and then without any apparent provocation, started singing. From the way the ladies were giving the “taala” with their right hands, my guess was they were singing some Carnatic songs. What is more – I could hear the sound of “dhol” (kind of drum) and “khanjani” (hand held metal percussion instrument) wafting thru the light breeze. In fact, I could see the young kid on the “dhol” and two of the men playing the “khanjani”.

People were walking by curiously. As did I (that is how I got the lower picture). Turned out they were singing religious songs.

This is what I would expect to see in any random street corner in India on a nice evening. Never expected that in Alpharetta Downtown!!!

After about 45 minutes, they simply packed up and left. As suddenly as they had come. Did not get a chance to walk up to them and find out what were they up to.