29 November 2013

“See you down the road”

An indelible moment of an “intersection point”. At Tamarindo, a few days back, the girls were busy buying knickknacks from the street vendors and I was generally hanging out watching all the people.

Struck up a conversation with this lady who was waiting to cross the road. She was probably in her late fifties to early sixties by my reckoning. Found out that she was from Vancouver Island. I told her how my eldest daughter fondly remembers the sea plane ride to her island. “Yep”, she said, “both my sons work as sea plane pilots”!!

The girls were still busy haggling. My new friend – Marlene was her name – was in no particular hurry. I learnt that she had lost her husband a few years ago and had once visited Costa Rica with her ex-husband when he was on a project in Panama. Evidently, her husband always wanted to settle in Costa Rica.

She is now applying for residency in Costa Rica. (I further learnt that you can stay for 90 days only on a tourist visa). She wants to teach English for free in Costa Rica. I asked her how she was getting along with her Spanish. She let me know that she was staying with a Costa Rican family nearby to do a 30 day immersion into the language!!

By this time, everybody was in the tourist van again and were calling for me. I asked her if it would be okay for me to take a picture of her for my travelogues. She gladly obliged and I got the street vendor to take a picture of us. As she turned away, she said something that stuck in my mind for the rest of the day – “See you down the road”…

As I climbed back up in the van, I kept shaking my head thinking about her. Here is somebody at least ten years older to me – completely unafraid of change… after losing her husband, instead of staying closer to her sons, decided to move to an entirely new country… learn a whole new language… dedicate herself to a new profession. What courage!! What zest to live her life!!! What determination to travel the road less traveled! And how much I need to learn from her example.

I was so absorbed in her willingness to seize her life that I completely forgot to get her contacts. Now I am kicking myself. I am hoping her words “See you down the road” turns out to be very prophetic.

We certainly are all nomads in this long road called life. Sometimes, we do turn around a corner and run into somebody we had seen before…
As some poet had famously put it…

“Sitaron ko aankhon me mehsoos rakh lo
Bahut door talak raat hi raat hogi
Musafir hai hum bhi, musafir ho tum bhi
Isi mod par, phir mulakat hogi”


Posted November 29, 2013 by Rajib Roy in category "Intersection Points", "Vacations


  1. By Rajib Roy on

    Jesse, life indeed has a way to work that way. How are you? Your willingness to put in the hard work is no less inspiring to me.

  2. By Jesse Smith on

    Rajib, I am doing well! Working hard on my school finals and working two jobs… Waitressing at a nice new restaurant in Marietta and working with kids at Primrose Preschool. I find out if I am accepted to the nursing program in April. So keep your fingers crossed for me ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. By Rajib Roy on

    Jesse, you got my best wishes. I will come and visit your bar sometime. Send me a personal message on the name/location and the days you are there. I will bring some office friends after work…

  4. By Somya Chaudhary on

    Age should not be a limitation in life…. It’s our society that sets all kinds if limits on what we can truly accomplish!!! Thanks for the post


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