13 February 2025

Off to another country!

Taking full advantage of Sharmila being in India and the long weekend, I am venturing out to check out another small country. Guyana.

Why Guyana, you ask? I don’t know. Two years back when I flew to India to surprise Sharmila, my cover for that travel was a trumped up story that I was visiting Suriname. I loved the name of their capital – sounds like a Bengali word – Paramaribo.

Guyana is an even smaller country right next to it. Got fairly good tickets. (In Bengali, দামটাও দেখে নিলাম “গায়ে না” লাগে !). So, here I am.

Found out that 40% of Guyanese are of Indian origin (like Fiji) and one in three are Hindus. Apparently it is sparsely populated (only more than 4 other countries are more sparse) but GDP per capita is pretty high. In the Americas, only USA, Canada and the Bahamas beat it. However, there is tremendous inequality of income. Nearly half the people are below the poverty line.

Time to explore now!!

13 February 2025

Amex outdoes itself again

One of the best play on words – and ad placement – I have ever seen was in JFK airport many years back while going thru customs and immigration. As you come out after wrapping up your formalities and start walking down the long corridor to exit – there was an Amex ad that said “If you had a green card, you would not need a visa!!” To get this, you have to remember that in the old days, Amex cards used to have an iconic green color.

Coming out of the flight from Atlanta today, as I started walking down the corridors of Miami airport, I looked up a saw the Amex Centurion lounge. And right there was this lovely play on words for folks who are tired of their delayed flights…

Amex: You are a Member when you seize the delay !

13 February 2025

First time I am seeing this

You see that wheelchair meant to transport people with ambulatory difficulties sitting in the middle of the corridor? Actually it is not sitting there. It is moving. You can see one more behind it – following it.

It is an autonomous, robotic wheelchair! It was amazing to watch it negotiate the traffic. I guess, after autonomous vacuum cleaner, cars, food delivery carts, I should have guessed this was coming!

This is in Miami International airport.

1 February 2025

All this time… and I had no idea!

Rashmi and I go back – oh some three decades. Her daughter Mitali was very close to Natasha when they were growing up as kids. For 13 years we were in Dallas. And now it has been nearly 20 years that we have been out of Dallas.

Even after these many years, we still stumble upon hitherto unknown intersection points!

Found out that Rashmi and Apurva, when they were in Hong Kong, were very close to Sharmila’s friend Rupa. In fact, when Sharmila and I had visited Rupa and stayed in her apartment, Rashmi and Apurva were in an apartment in the next building!!

Here is another one. Rashmi’s elder sister – Ranjha – lives in New York. We know her pretty well. And there is this girl from my old neighborhood in Durgapur – Urmi Duttagupta. Very close friend of me and my sister.

And now I find out that they are math professors in the same college in New York and know each other very well!!

Cool connections!

31 January 2025

Another intersection point

Following instructions, we had all arrived a bit early to the birthday party. The idea was to get together before Mita (whose birthday it was) could arrive and we would all spring a big old “Surprise” on her.

While mingling with the crowd and making new friends with strangers, I struck up a conversation with this young, handsome young man. After a few pleasantries, our discussion went something like this:

“By the way, I did not catch your name,” I said.

“Amit. Amit Walia.”

“Got it. Wait… Amit Walia? I have heard that name before. In fact that name came up recently….”. I was trying to rack my brains to remember where had I heard that name. (Later realized Mita had mentioned his name when Kushal and she visited us in Atlanta a few weeks back)

“What is your name?”

“Rajib”

“Got it…”

“You know, I am still trying to remember… I know that name was discussed very recently…”

And then he interrupted me.

“Wait, Rajib Roy?”

“Yes”

“Atlanta?”

“Yes”

And then in a few minutes we were able to put the whole thing together. Both of us were in school together – way back in the 70s. St. Xavier’s School, Durgapur to be precise. Amit was two years senior to me.

One of the advantages of my blogging all my life events was that I was able to take him thru pictures of all our teachers from the school. In the last decade or so, I have looked all of them up and visited them from Hyderabad to Ernakulam to Pune to Lucknow to Delhi… name the city and I have gone and visited them.

With each of the names, Amit was getting more and more animated as a lot of memories started coming back to him. Finally I gave him the contacts of a few teachers that he remembered the most and wanted to talk to.

Meanwhile, the birthday girl had started coming our way and we all switched off the lights and went silent in waiting.

I need to sit down with Amit again and go thru our school days in more detail.

31 January 2025

Our first apartment in Dallas

I had recently posted pictures of our first apartment in this country. We revisited it when we went to Fort Lauderdale area a couple of weeks back.

From Florida, our next stop was Texas. Grapevine, Texas to be precise.

During our visit to Dallas last week, we went back to that first apartment in Dallas area we had lived in. We were there till 1995 at which point I had changed my job and moved to Arlington.

Incredible how the apartment complex, the pool area and everything around it has remained pretty much the same. I could drive there purely from memory.

In fact, I parked our rental car – a Toyota Camry from Avis – exactly at the same spot where we had parked our rental car the first night in Texas some 31 years back – also a Toyota Camry from Avis!! Only to wake up the next morning to realize our car had been broken into!!

That was a bit of a jarring welcome into Texas!!