27 May 2013

Day so far….

1.Virtual group run with Bengali group – 4 miles
2. Beach soccer with Niki for an hour
3. Another run in beach – this time no shoes – 2 miles
4. Meiomi Pinot Noir whole day
5. With Niki in ocean for a hour
6. With Niki in pool for another hour
7. Read “Pause Principle” while getting fried in the sun πŸ™‚
8. Long beach walk with Sharmila
9.. Sunday night date night with Sharmila at Dunes House

Now, if I can 10. hit the sack sometime, it will be “Mission Accomplished” for me πŸ™‚

26 May 2013

Four letter word?

Sharmila and I took a long walk on the beach hand in hand and all that stuff… Discussions swirled around our parents, India, life after kids, work and all things sundry. Somehow the discussion veered towards me having to sell her something (I think it was about the location of our retirement home). Anyways, she thought I am a terrible sales person. Touched to the quick, I reminded her that she had said “No” when I proposed to her and her parents were dead against the marriage. Yet, we are where we are – so I cannot be that bad in sales.
Not sure whether she was trying to make light of the situation or just being reflective but she said that I do not know what life would have been if we were not married.
This was getting awkward for me. So, determined to make light of the situation myself I pointed out that “life” is a four letter word. She laughed out loud. Thoroughly relieved, I proceeded with my joke – “as is ‘work’, ‘wife’, ‘kids’…..”. As she continued to laugh, I ratcheted up the challenge -“Name me one four letter word after our marriage that we have enjoyed”.
Her laughter came to a sudden stop and she dead panned “Wine”!
Did I mention when I said that I was holding her hand, I had a plastic cup of cheap house wine from our resort in my other hand? Boy, does she know how to nail me. πŸ™‚
I continued to point out to her how beautiful the ocean looked …. πŸ™‚