24 September 2022

Our second foray into Alpharetta downtown Saturday morning farmer’s market

… what in Bengali we would call āĻļāĻ¨āĻŋāĻŦāĻžāĻ°ā§‡āĻ° āĻšāĻžāĻŸ !

Today’s discovery includes young ginger (I do not think I have ever had this) and white cucumber. Also found Bengali’s favorite āĻĒā§āĻāĻ‡āĻļāĻžāĻ•!! I am one āĻšāĻšā§āĻšā§œāĻŋ away from reliving the Saturday mornings in India!

I am thinking of making some cocktails utilizing the young ginger. If you have any ideas, let me know…

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26 August 2022

The final piece of furniture has arrived!

Sharmila bought the sofa back in November last year. 9 months of supply chain issues later, it is finally here. There are still finishing touches left but she thinks now the main floor has all the essentials to start calling her friends.

Also the battle of attrition between Jay Jay and her in terms of whether he can restore his rights to jump on to the sofa has ensued. As of now, he is on the losing end!!

Sofa. So good!

23 August 2022

The bookends of a phase of our life

The first picture is the day Natasha came home from the hospital. In our infinite wisdom, we had decided to move into our first house a few days before Natasha was expected. It certainly did not help that Natasha decided enough was enough and came out ten days early. We brought her to a house surrounded by boxes and I spent most of the day looking for things in those myriad of boxes.

The second picture is the moment Nikita gave her goodbye hug to Sharmila before she set off on her own life in college on Monday. The facial expressions on their faces says it all.

In between those two bookends has been 24 years of amazing learnings in life. From those early days when you wish the first kid at least came with a user manual to learning how to negotiate with a two year old who has no concept of logic nor reason to nursery rhymes playing in your mind incessantly even in your sleep to suddenly realizing your sole purpose in life is to serve as an embarrassment in front of their school friends – it has been an incredible journey.

As with every parents, I suspect, we got a few things right and a few things not so right. But going thru a phase of life when you realize that you are really all they have as helpless kids trying to stand up in life has to be one of the most rewarding experiences life can offer to you.

The next chapter begins from here.

8 July 2022

Adapting to the new house

Jay Jay and I are now having to deal with the fact that we do not have our own private music room in this small house. Today, I tried a different approach. Sat on the swingset downstairs and listened to music on the bluetooth Beats.

Jay Jay showed his contempt at not getting any Pringles or being able to listen to music by hiding my other shoe! (seriously, I have no idea what happened to my other shoe)